The definition of Success is subjective. We all have a different point view. What one person considers successful, another may disagree with entirely. Neither of them is wrong, but it does indicate what those individuals’ value. Some people believe lots of money, cars, houses, boats, and toys of all kinds means you are successful in life.
Is that true for everyone? I don’t think so.
Yes, money and all the things it can buy will help you live a more comfortable life. There are plenty of people who have all the money they need and all the stuff they ever wanted, and yet, they’re emotionally miserable because they may not have what they truly need.
People need things that cannot be bought and paid for. Like time, health, family, dear friends, true connection with others, and the feeling of belonging. These ‘free’ things, that are often disregarded when talking about success, are more important than they get any credit for.
I believe being happy and content in the life you live is success. If you can look in the mirror and say “hey, you did your best today. I still like you. You were kind to everyone and everything. Your friends and family still love you” then today was a success!
Much of me believes that having a roof over our head, food on the table, love and a purpose to get up in the morning is what truly fills my heart. When it comes down to it. To me, that is success.
Even when funds seem tight, I still consider my life successful because I have worked hard on being the kind of person I view as successful, which is kind, compassionate, adventurous, smart, and ambitious. I’ve been working on myself to be the best person I can be, and it has been paying off mind, body and spiritually.
When I decided to set goals for myself and keep them. It led to forgiving myself and others. Then to greater love and respect for myself, so then I was able to treat my body better. Meeting these goals on more days than not feels good. This also feels like success.
I have wonderful family and friends that love me through the mistakes or miscommunications. A few highly valued loved ones who taught me how to be as supportive to others as they support me. Being thankful for the people, pets, opportunities and situations that bring me joy and allow me to be authentically me help me feel successful.
How do you view success? What does it look like to you? Go kick butt by being you today! Success is what you make of it.
Wishing you an abundance of joyful blessings,
Emy Minzel ~
Emy Minzel 